Working on losing and not gaining over the holidays

I know it's been a long time since I was blogging but I need to get stuff off my chest that has been dragging me down, causing me to hold steady on my weight and not lose. We finally got our house resided and shingled after the hail storm. It took 5 1/2 weeks and it came in higher than the estimate. That's what we get for hiring a friend who took advantage of us. When I tried to get my husband to address issues of taking so long, costing so much, destroying my flower beds, etc he didn't want to make his friend angry. I made the point that it was okay to make me angry. He said no but he just couldn't tell his friend anything. I don't know about you but it sounds to me like make wife angry but don't say anything to friend to jeopardize that relationship. Since then our marriage has had many issues. It has really made me wonder why we are still together. We are fighting about money since I dipped into his spending money ($50) to buy presents for Christmas. He feels what he makes is for him, what I make is for us. I am just so tired of this whole thing. To top it off, our son is just not getting his stuff together in school so now I am having to help him to get organized and pass his classes. Tonight, when i was going to do a workout with My Fitness Coach I had to stop since he has a huge project due tomorrow and had to work on all of the pages and write the final drafts for it. We worked on it until almost 10:00. When I yelled at our son about waiting until the last minute, my husband told me to back off since our son was getting upset and scared. Since this keeps happening I was angry and he should be scared that I will keep yelling. I am just so tired of doing everything. My counterpart at work is still doing as little as she can and getting away with it. I am so tired.