No matter the plan... we all Blog to Lose!
Ok I get that people have a bad day or that they are not happy with their jobs or don't know how to handle their stress but do they really have to be so hurtful all the time? Have you ever woke up in a good mood and within a few hours all you hear is negative stuff from someone? My goal in life is to be healthy, eat right, enjoy my children and family. i have bad day but I try not to let it effect those around me. I mean if they ask I tell them I'm having a bad day but never have I ever had a bad and looked at someone in a good mood and cut them down for being in one. I woke up in a great moodng forward to what my plans were for the day only to have someone tell me that they were told by one of my children that I was always mad and that I was real bitchy with them. Ok what in the world did that statement have to do with me asking them how their weekend was? And why did they feel the need to tell me that after asking me if I was in a good mood? I have 3 teenagers and right now we are not all see eye to eye about things like homework, boyfriends and liscense priviliges but to have one them say that is hard for me to believe so I went from being in good mood to questioning myself and my parenting. So I figure writing out how I feel will help me let go of this feeling but I welcome in feedback you would like to offer I mean I keep thinking this is normal for teenage behavior but it bugs me. Well i am off to salvage my day and hopefully find that good mood again. Have a good day everyone.