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Average size a 14/16?
Please do not take offense. I can not stand when woman that are bigger than me say i am small. I had one girl say you are too skinny eat a burger. Really? Cause last time I checked I have rolls that arent easily hidden. I work hard to hide my fat but you have to be able to tell I am bigger. Ugh! I was looking through some pics that I was tagged in on Facebook and litterally got sick to my stomach. The bad part is that I say this now but then go eat my snickers bar. I am sorry if you get tired of my ranting but I must get this out somehow! So I am average size? That is sad...(sad face) I do feel trapped. Does anyone watch Drop Dead Diva? I love that show. I truly feel like a super model trapped in this fat suit. I love dressing up but the clothes i like surely look better on the mannequin. Why does food have to give me a relief from stress? Look someone just needs to get me a pake ASAP! So now you know I am ADHD with these two blogs alone. I can start it off at one end of the spectrum and end up on the other side of a completely different prism. Ha!
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Comment by Cindy on September 12, 2012 at 10:28pm -
I guess it's just all about perspective to people. To a person who wears clothes twice your size I'm sure a 14/16 sounds tiny, just as much as a size 7/8 may sound small to a 14/16. I am a 16 and one day I was talking to one of my closest friends in the world and I was moaning and groaning about my weight. Up to that point, she had just endured it all, I guess. But she finally pointed out that she and many others would kill to be my size. I have tried to be much more aware of what I say and around who I say it.
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Comment by amartine on September 12, 2012 at 10:40pm -
I understand the feeling! I love dressing up and looking cute, but lately it hasn't been so cute. People don't ever guess me at the size I actually wear. I've had friends loan me clothes (dresses for weddings, etc) in sizes much smaller than what I am because they don't realize how big I actually am. I have never been more than a size 12 and that's what I have been most of my adult life. The smallest I've ever been was a size 8. What got me motivated? About 2 weeks ago I went to buy a pair of shorts for work because it was going to be super hot out...I had to buy a size 14. I cried. That's what made me get going. Put that snickers bar down! Ill message you so maybe we can figure out a buddy system!
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Comment by Lynette S on September 12, 2012 at 11:05pm -
Remember, sometimes the amount you weigh is someone else's goal. They don't mean it to as an insult, rather then, they would be happy to be your size.
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Comment by Keem on September 13, 2012 at 10:52am -
DDD is a great show!! :)
I also dress to hide my trouble zones and am often stumped as to why some women wear shirts a size or two to small or clingy ones that accentuate their problems.
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Comment by Sexynow30 on September 13, 2012 at 8:29pm -
Cindy Actually I believe size 0-2 is tiny but I would be ok to be a size 5. Yes even though someone would love to be my size...it still doesnt make this size attractive to me. Thank you for your comments.
Amartine yes that is exactly what people tell me! "You carry it well." I do not want to carry it at all! I know exactly what you mean. I broke down and purchased size 14 shorts. Ugh!
Lynette I see what you mean. So if I am insulted myself at my current size then it is like I am insulting someone that has set their goals as my current weight, Thanks!
Keem IKR Totally agree! Sheesh how bout bikinis on bodies they werent made for. How do you think you can wear that. However I wish i had a little more confidence. But then again why does the designer make them so large!
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