No matter the plan... we all Blog to Lose!
Yesterday there was exbf the asshole drama. I do not speak to him. No contact. But we have mutual friends on fb (he blocked me-- which is beyond ridiculous). HIs friends will not drop me as they all realize I was the best thing that happened to him and he refused marriage and the end was his fault.
Immediately after stopping our reconciliation (actually overlapping) he started dating this ex coworker. within 2 weeks he madly loved her. whatever. poor lady. does not even know she is the rebound (he is a massively good liar).
anyways, without all details...he has an 18 yr headed off to college and a 12 yr old. the oldest hate shim for various reasons. but back when we broke up in nov, the ex started playing family with his exwife and kids. as in spent christmas and easter with them and her family. snday dinners. etc. i know this but he lies to everyone else and told them i was crazy. ok whatever. then in the spring when he started dating this new chick, he ditched family time. he skipped the daughters recital to take new gf away etc (i felt bad..i was mom like for that kid for five yrs).
so the summer comes and apparently he spends all his money on the gf and they go away all the time. no vaca for the youngest though (with me she always had a vaca). and the son refuses to have dad at his grad party.
well, yesterday, the gf for some reason decided to write on a mutual friends wall asking if he was going to come on the sailboat. now the ex has always wantd one, but logical me pointed out things like we had no money, no place to store it etc. and he always said i was crushing his dreams and not supporting him. ok whatever. guess she supports you. cause his ass bough a sailboat AND a new car to tow it.
he did this the week before his kid goes to college and turns out he is paying NOTHING for the kid to go to college, despite the divorce agreement saying he has to.
i am sickened at who he has become. though, a mutual friend pointed out he has always been selfish like this, but for the 5 yrs with me i made him better and stopped this shit, but he never actually changed.